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ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DILDOS
Dildo Tips and Techniques -
A dildo can be any object designed for insertion into the vagina or anus. They have been around for about 2500 years - only the materials have changed. Both heterosexual and homo-sexual men and women can use dildos for personal penetration or shared pleasure with their partners. Sex with a dildo gives complete control over manipulation for personal pleasure. It's a good way for a woman to keep her vagina toned for intercourse, a great way to have sex without a partner present and a dildo gives way to lots of creative possibilities. There are so many different kinds of dildos that shopping can be a bit confusing. The most important factor in your dildo purchase will be personal preference and the primary use. Because dildos are dry and somewhat porous they absorb moisture so it is a good idea to always use a lubricant. The muscles of both the vagina and the anus tighten and constrict.
If you are a first time user it's a good idea to lube up and do some external stimulation. The tip of the dildo simulates the head of a penis so moving it up and down on the clitoris will provide great stimulation. Once you feel comfortable you can move on to internal insertion. You can do a few tightening and constricting exercises of the vagina or anus muscles first. When the blood is flowing through the area exhale and insert. Do not insert further than is comfortable and remember that you control the experience. Once you feel comfortable, you can start getting creative by placing the dildo on a surface that you can straddle. If you are sharing a dildo with a partner be sure to use a condom and always use a condom if you are moving the dildo from the anus to the vagina.
DILDOS -
Dildos come in all shapes and sizes and materials. As with all adult toys personal preference is all that counts.
Cyberskin
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is the hottest new material. Called by other names such as Ultra Skin it is very realistic in texture and feels just like real skin.
Silicone
- is considered the top of the line. The reasons are the texture (soft, non-porus, velvety surface), easy to clean and it warms up to body temperature.
Realistics
- is made of soft rubber material and colored with a realistic skin tone. Many adult stars are the models for these molds.
Jellies -
are soft, pliable, have a translucent quality and come in lots of festive colors. Because they are more rounded and smooth they have a different sensation that the standard texture dildo.
Lucite - are inflexible, easy to clean, nearly indestructible, but do not warm as easily to body temperature. They should be considered when you want hard penetration.
G-Spot (curved dildos)
- these dildos have a rounded end for G Spot stimulation. After insertion, the curved end should be pointed upwards towards the naval. Another popular use for this kind of dildo is male prostate stimulation.
Non-Phallic Dildos
- it doesn't have to be shaped like a penis to work and there are lots of alternatives to the penis-shaped dildo.
Anal Dildos (Butt Plugs or Anal Plugs)
- are designed specifically for anal insertion. They are flared at the base so as not to get lost. They are manufactured out of the same dildo materials mentioned above and come in many different sizes and colors. There are also anal probes which are are plugs mounted on a handle.
Dildos
- are constructed with a head at each end. This toy can be shared by two people at the same time or inserted in the vagina and anus at the same time. Double dildos can be either the same size on either end or can be purchased with different dimensions. The key to a double dildo experience is positioning and practice.
Strap Ons (Harness)
- A dildo strap-on can either go around the hips or thigh. The harness is made of straps that radiate out from a central ring where the dildo is placed and then radiates out resting against the body. Only a dildo with a flared end will work. The best strap ons are made of leather or nylon and have tight fitting rings, buckles or velcro. When purchasing a strap on you need to consider the size of the dildo that you want to use.
Dildo sizes -
The biggest mistake people make in purchasing a dildo is buying one that is too large. While it is true that the body can accommodate many different sizes, keep in mind that a thinner shaft is easier to to maneuver. If you have never purchased a dildo before, try the "Vegetable Test". Clean up a carrot, zucchini and a cucumber and see what feels best - when you have decided what works then measure the length of the the vegetable (both length and diameter) and you will have your answer. If you are not into vegetables the "Finger Test" will also work. If you have recently had any kind of genital surgery or a long absence from sexual relations then smaller is better - you can always upgrade. The width of the dildo may be more important than the length. Dildos vary in diameter ranging from 1" to 6". As a rule of thumb 1 - 1 1/2" in diameter will be large enough. The most common dildo lengths are 6, 7, 8 and 9 inches. The average purchase if for a 6-8" shaft length. If you like very deep penetration, choose a dildo 8" or longer. You can always thrust less deeply, but you cannot make a dildo that is too short reach further. Vaginal length often correlates to height, so if you have a shorter frame you will probably prefer a shorter dildo. When looking at a dildo for anal play, remember that there is a curve in the rectum 3-5 inches in from the opening, so consider something shorter than 3".
Care and Cleaning of Dildos -
After purcahsing a dildo open the package and allow the it to air out so any plastic odors will dissipate. Wash in antiseptic soap and water. A stronger cleaning solution is a bleach and water solution of [1 part bleach to 9 parts water] but read the label for cleaning instructions before using bleach. Your dildo will last longer and be easier to keep clean if you use it with a condom. If you are using it by yourself, make sure that you wash the dildo with antiseptic soap and water after every use and especially moving it from one part of the body to another. Warm, antiseptic soapy water and a thorough rinsing is an absolute
MUST! Silicon dildos can be boiled in hot water and even washed in the dish washer. If you have been diagnosed with any type of STD, vaginatis or any other medical problem use a condom so that you do not keep re-infecting yourself. Always use a condom when sharing toys. Make sure to dry your dildo carefully - any left over moisture can cause growth of fungus or mold. Store your dildo(s) in a cool, dry place. Direct sunlight or excessive heat will cause disfiguration and fading.
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Dildo Tips -
If this is your first dildo purchase buy the less expensive model or buy several of the less expensive models and experiment till you find what is right for you.
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